What is a Sex Coach?

Why Work With a Sex Coach?

A sex coach is a trained professional who helps people find solutions to sex related woes. Sex coaches solve problems such as sexless marriage, low libido, and sexual dysfunction, but also guide their clients to fully grasp their sexual potential through education, training and open communication.

Society tells us that we are supposed to naturally know how to have sex. The desire to have sex is natural (pleasure is our birthright), but the skills to be a fabulous lover (to ourselves & others) aren’t. The truth is that people need to learn how to have great sex.

Since sex is something that is often shamed in our culture, talking about it or giving explicit instruction still remains pretty rare. A few of us will meet a ‘teacher in the sheets’, but what does that mean for the rest of us? Or maybe you’re fresh out of a long term relationship & want to learn about yourself again. Or you’re years into a beautiful relationship that could use some passion.

This is where working with a good sex coach can be magical. Sex is learnable and teachable (without being rehearsed & rigid). The best way to learn about it is to get feedback from an experienced, non-judgmental and supportive person.

 

What Kinds of Sex Coaches Are There?

Depending on your personality, your intentions & overall sexual interests, you may be drawn to a particular approach as there are many different kinds. Here are the 3 main types:

Talk

During talk coaching sessions, a sex coach asks you about your challenges and goals. They then give you suggestions for improvement, as well as book and video recommendations.

Experiential

The other type of coaching is experiential sex coaching. In this method, your coach will teach you how to be a better lover through talking, experiential, and sometimes, hands-on touch practices. Experiential practices might include breath work, how to emit and share sexual energy, and how to verbally seduce a partner.

Hands-On

Hands-on touch practices may include teaching the types of touch that are most arousing for the skin, by touching your clients arm and having them touch yours.